I was sitting out on the deck today looking up at the sky.
What I saw was unusual and truly amazing. Above me there was a clear sky probably about
30 minutes from becoming dark for the night. To my left and to my right,
however, there were clouds coming towards me. I could hear the not so distant
sound of thunder even though directly above my head it was still clear and not
even a single drop of rain. My initial reaction when I heard the sound of the
thunder was to get up and go inside. Then I caught myself. I thought, "Why
am I going inside? The storm has not actually got here. I am just assuming
this." The underlying reason I was going inside was I did not want to
experience the change that was going to take place. I did not want to be
sitting out right in the middle of the storm. The funny thing about it was that
the storm had not quite made it yet. I was assuming it was coming. Even after
the fact the idea of sitting outside with a storm does not amuse me. I think so
many times in our lives just because we think the storm is coming we run for
shelter. Sure there are logical reasons in this scenario for me to take shelter
in the case that the event I expect to happen would have actually taken place. I started thinking how the earth would
be if storms and rain never occurred. I realized how this change that was about
to take place was really necessary for the survival of myself and the world. We
could not live if all that ever happened were hot temperatures and blistering
sunlight or cold weather for that matter. This change was essential despite the
fact that I did not want to be in the middle of it.
We are often opposed to change in our lives. We are spoiled
by the routines and schedules that deliver us consistency in our lives every
day. We are often uncomfortable by any unexpected change coming into our lives
no matter how small it might be. We tend to associate change with a negative
outcome. We wonder so many times why we never truly see change in our lives. It
is because we don't let change occur without a fight. We don't embrace change
unless it is desirable at that instance and we give not a single thought for
the future effect the change could make. We tug and wrestle for consistency in
our lives. The fact of the matter is that if we always fight for consistency,
we will keep getting consistency. But is it the right kind of consistency?
If we want change to happen, we simply have to let change
happen. The right change will bring the right consistency in our lives.
We don't want the storm to come in our lives but sometimes
it is necessary for survival in the end. The storms are what makes us or breaks
us. Realize change is a good thing sometimes and the next time the storm comes,
just embrace it and enjoy the ride. Quit fighting for consistency and fight for
change. The outcome may indeed be truly amazing.
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